By Claudia Gilmore Gutierrez
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October 30, 2024
Well, it’s happening. Millennials are approaching menopause. We can’t go over it, we can’t go under it. We have to go through it. So, let’s face our fears together and pull back the veil on menopause. We promise, it’s not as scary as it makes itself out to be. WTF is menopause? Clinically, menopause is when your periods stop–for good–and you can no longer get pregnant. In other words, your ovaries officially put in for retirement after ~450 periods over the course of your life. They’ve earned this break, and so have you, sister. For most of us, menopause happens sometime between 45 to 55. The reason it’s such a big window is because even though all of us go through menopause, no woman will have the same exact experience as another. It’s as unique to us as our fingerprints. Want to have your mind blown? Once you’ve hit menopause, you stay in menopause. That means you’ll spend about 40% of your life in menopause. In other words, that’s almost half of our lives ! What that also means is when people talk about ‘being in menopause’ or ‘going through menopause’, what they’re actually referring to is peri menopause. Wait, WTF is perimenopause? Bet you weren’t expecting that plot twist! So, while menopause is a decades-long chapter in your life, perimenopause describes the shorter transition ‘period’ before your ovaries stop ovulating for good. It can last about two years or, for others, it can drag on for eight years. For some women, it can start as early as your late-30s or as late as your mid-50s. Whenever it happens, it’s when things wind down in your baby-making factory. Some months you may ovulate, other months you won’t. Your memory, sex drive, and sleep patterns may become just as sporadic as your periods. Night sweats and hot flashes may hit like a rapidly intensified category five storm. If you’re starting to freak out, let’s take a deep breath together. Remember, we’re in this together, all of us. And we have a spoiler alert for you: relief and treatments exist for 100% of these symptoms. More on that at the end, so stay with us! Meet your complicated friend, Estrogen Much of women’s health (practically all of it) is rooted in hormones, and peri/menopause is no different. The main player here is estrogen. While we usually think of estrogen as a sex hormone whose main role is to regulate your cycle, it actually impacts everything from your heart to your bones to your brain. Knowing this, it makes more sense why it seems like everything in our body goes haywire when perimenopause hits. But hormonal changes never happen in a vacuum, so when your estrogen levels begin to decline in perimenopause, this sounds off alarm bells throughout your body and sets off a domino effect of symptoms. Who doesn’t love a sense of balance? Turns out, your hormones do, too! Allow us to nerd out for a moment. Remember waaaay back in high school biology when you learned about homeostasis? Or was that just us? 😅 Anyway, the concept is that our bodies work their best in a tightly regulated window and when things get out of whack, your body will do everything it can to get back to its happy place: a place of balance . Honestly, it sounds comforting to us, too. When our hormones are balanced, our bodies perform their best... You don’t cry during a Tina Fey Booking.com commercial. You make a normal number of poops a day (that’s 1-3, in case you were wondering). You sleep 7-9 hours through the night without tossing and turning and eventually relenting to 3AM doomscrolling. Getting back to the point: Your hormone systems are all connected, so when your sex hormones start to fluctuate (remember, that’s estrogen and its sidekick, progesterone), the other hormones will compensate to try to restore balance . Those other hormones are thyroid, insulin, cortisol, and adrenaline. 👋 When that power struggle goes down, it leads to a vast array of symptoms that include everything from (you guessed it) hot flashes and night sweats to mood changes and brain fog. What’s wild is that many perimenopausal women who go to their doctor with feelings of anxiety or depression are prescribed anti-depressants when, in reality, their hormones just need help finding equilibrium again. That’s why it’s so critical to have a doctor who will help you get to the root cause of your symptoms (like… Wisdom Medicine 😉). Get ready to become your best advocate Now that you know what’s going on inside your body when perimenopause arrives, you need to listen to your symptoms, believe what you’re feeling, and advocate for your needs. That’s because women are 30% more likely to be dismissed by doctors than men, and that number is even higher among minority women. What happens when we’re dismissed by a doctor (even a well-meaning but misinformed doctor) is that we suffer longer than we should and we go longer than we need to without a diagnosis. None of that is acceptable. Before we go pointing fingers, part of the reason for so much dismissal of women is that the medical community doesn’t know that much about our bodies. It wasn’t until 1994 that it became the law in the United States to include women in clinical research. That was JUST 30 years ago. But, still, three decades later and 99% of studies on the biology of aging don’t consider menopause. No big surprise there’s still no standardized menopause curriculum taught in medical school. So if you’re met with a shrug when you ask your provider about your peri/menopause symptoms, they simply don’t have very much data to work off of, at no fault of their own. That’s why it’s more important than ever to look to your own biology, your own science, and your own symptoms to craft your own peri/menopause care. And, thankfully, that level of personalized care is now possible. 100% of peri/menopause symptoms are treatable We’ve introduced you to all the main characters in peri/menopause as well as the plot twists, the moments of drama and crisis, and now we bring you to the resolution. Despite infuriating gaps in clinical research, cutting-edge breakthroughs in personalized medicine can give you the care and the relief you deserve. The key ingredient is finding an empathetic doctor who: Takes the time to listen to your symptoms Always believes and validates your concerns Is trained to see the whole picture (because our hormones, like our peri/menopause symptoms, don’t live in silos!) Will use that specialized training to look through windows other doctors may not even see, so they can connect the dots between your symptoms and their underlying causes At Wisdom, we have just those very doctors, so you’ve come to the right place! To get started, here are a few free tips from our experts Wisdom’s very own menopause specialist, Dr. Jennifer Goto, wants to leave you with a few of her top tips for thriving through perimenopause. Start the conversation early. Yup, we mean talk about all this with your doctor before perimenopause. Your body needs extra care and support to head into perimenopause as healthy as it can be, so it can safely weather these hormonal storms. Dr. Goto suggests target testing for nutrients and minerals as a starting point. Any imbalance you find in nutrients and minerals can contribute to a variety of symptoms like night sweats, mood swings, cramps, fatigue, weight changes, insomnia, and more. Fix your gut. There is strong evidence of the connection between our gut and hormones, but did you know this is also true for perimenopause? Not only do our guts produce chemicals like equol that are linked to perimenopause symptoms, but it’s the foundation for making sure our body is able to absorb all of the critical nutrients we’re consuming! Support all hormones. As mentioned above, your sex hormones are not the only hormone actors on the stage during peri/menopause. So, for example, it’s just as important to make sure your adrenal glands and thyroid are functioning optimally before perimenopause as it is to check your estrogen levels. Share your concerns with your doctor. Because every woman is different and experiences perimenopause differently, it's important to be specific when describing your symptoms. This helps ensure your care plan is tailored to your needs. If your doctor dismisses your concerns...it's time for a new doctor. With tips like these, personalized to your body and your science, you can arrive at menopause feeling like a whole new woman–stronger, healthier, more confident, and ready to live the best years of your life. There’s no better time than now to prepare (or find relief) for perimenopause and menopause.